10 Sep Blogger Hating & Why I’m Fucking Over It


Ugh she started a blog? How DARE she.

There goes another one, jumping on the bandwagon.

She thinks she is so cool.

Attention whore.

Vegan bitch. (Not vegan but over people hating vegans??)

Her style sucks; why is she a fashion blogger?

Fake bitch.

—— ENOUGH. I am so over hearing all of this shit every. Single. Day.

So this person found something they’re passionate about?

So they’re putting them self out there to be embraced and instead is being judged?


Friendly reminder to ask yourself:
Does this effect me in any way?
Is this person doing this in a malicious effort to harm others?
Do I fucking care?
If so, why do I care???

I’ve been wanting to write about this for a while but didn’t want to stir the pot or “offend” anyone….  but now I don’t give a shit 🙂

Here’s to all the girls and guys putting themselves out there, to everyone that found something they are passionate about – style, fashion, food, photography, modeling, WHATEVER.

Here’s to you for giving a damn and doing something for YOU.

And to anyone who is just soooo annoyed by bloggers – why? Does it hurt you mentally? Physically? Please find something else to care about so deeply instead of poopoo-ing what brings someone else joy.

Maybe a blog is a creative outlet for someone. Maybe they hate their job and this is the highlight of their day. Maybe they don’t have a job but this motivates them even more. Maybe they live in the middle of nowhere and it’s their way to connect with the rest of the world. Maybe they’re going through something rough and doing this makes them happy. You never really know the reason or what someone’s life is like… so why not be a little nicer, be a little more respectful, and be a little more supportive?

Ladies: support your fellow females!!! Life is hard enough bleeding from your vagina every month.

Guys: the fratty douche bag phase isn’t endearing anymore, sorry.

Ugh that felt good. Nothing like a little cussing and venting to my computer to really feel empowered.


Love to all.


[Photos are all by the incredibly talented Jane Byrd Photography @janebyrdphoto + clothing in collaborating with local SD boutique Mimi & Red — pants are Amuse, top is MATE the Label]

  • Alesia
    Posted at 21:25h, 10 September Reply

    Love this! All so true. Sometimes you just gotta speak up and put yourself out there, even if some people don’t support it.

  • Alandra Michelle
    Posted at 21:33h, 10 September Reply

    Hell yes

  • Jacqueline
    Posted at 21:44h, 10 September Reply

    Such a great post! Thanks for being such a great voice out there for women to feel empowered! Xoxo

  • Kelsey Madison
    Posted at 21:54h, 10 September Reply

    Absolutely agree and LOVE this! You go girl!



  • Dannay rodriguez
    Posted at 23:06h, 10 September Reply

    Girl you my girl.
    Love your shit ❤️ let’s hug

    • sam
      Posted at 11:24h, 14 September Reply

      haha thank you babe, sending hugs 🙂

  • Helen Griffiths
    Posted at 03:09h, 11 September Reply

    YES I so completely agree. It’s bloody brave to put yourself out there on the internet, we all need to support each other – or, at the very least, let everyone do what makes them happy!

    Helen x

  • Melissa imbrogno
    Posted at 05:40h, 11 September Reply

    I love this!!!!!!!! You could not have said it better my friend! ❤️❤️❤️

  • Brigitte Patton
    Posted at 08:49h, 11 September Reply

    Amen sister.. people are gonna hate and you have to ignore the noise..

  • Sloane Wormser
    Posted at 11:44h, 11 September Reply

    LOVE this!!! No more hate!!!

  • Michelle Sun
    Posted at 11:20h, 14 September Reply

    GIRL, THANK YOU FOR THIS POST!!!! Loveeeee!!! We need more bloggers like you in the world 🙂

    • sam
      Posted at 11:24h, 14 September Reply

      haha THANK YOU Michelle, you’re the best!!!! 🙂

  • Erika Marinkovich
    Posted at 20:16h, 11 October Reply

    Took the words right outta my mouth! Every. Single. Cuss. Word. Too. 😘 Thank you for this! I’m feeling inspired.

  • Mary O'Connor
    Posted at 00:58h, 04 November Reply

    I love your ironic tone! The clichés… Priceless!

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